Saturday, October 13, 2007
letting go. i would just love to say. it is not my responsbility.
easy aint it. it's not my responsbility. it's not my fault.
yet, amazingly, everything in life seems to be interlinked.
qinni recently asked me. what have i learnt in the transistion states of pri-sec, sec-jc life? how have i changed?
i learnt not to judge people. because we are not in any position to.
somehow in the world we are living. in economic terms. there is always incomplete information.
hence it is a source of market failure. in simple terms. we can never know what is happening to the person. what he/she experiences. what difficulties he/she is facing.
therefore, we are in no position to say what he/she did is right/wrong.
furthermore, who are we to condemn anyone?
well. the best thing we can do is not to work with the person if you are not comfortable with the working style. hahah.
i learnt to be only accountable to myself and God!
i dont know why, but i kinda felt that maybe when we are young, we kind of live for others. live for other people's recognisation. ahahha. thank you for the joy! the love! (:
do things because you
want to and not because you are
obliged to.
if not, change the things that you really cant stand.
anyway. there is much more. had a very very insightful talk with qinneee. that's the result of the two of us togetherrrr.
aint it a common feeling that we dont want to grow up?
isnt it good to be forever ignorant and not know about things.
brings about the phrase ignorance is bliss.
bu xiang zhang da. hahahaz.
but we have to grow up. i suppose. that's the fantasy of life!
fell in love at18:26
